Make him wait

ladies...

Let me impart some knowledge to you, before I forget again.

If you're ever planning on getting serious with a guy, if you think he's more special than the other dudes and you want to get busy with him, make him wait.

What I mean is, go as far as you like, just don't sleep with him on the first goddamned date, for crying out loud. The man will go as far as you let him go, he will test his boundaries because he wants to see what kind of a girl you are, not because he's trying to play you.

And by all means, sleep with him. Just don't do it on the first damned date. If you give it up early, he will lose all respect for you, and you will officially move into the 'fun' zone forever.

It's kind of like when a guy moves into the 'friend' zone; there just aint no getting out of there.

Of course, if he's just a fling for you, then by all means go for it, but I just wanted to offer a simple suggestion in case you were unaware.